Compassion and Mercy of the Prophet Muhammad
In the Name of Allâh, the Most Beneficent, the Most Merciful
Qadi Iyyad
As for compassion, tenderness and mercy to all creation, Allah
said about him: "Grievous to him is what you suffer, anxious for you,
compassionate is he, merciful to the believers." (10:128) Allah says: "We only
sent you as a mercy to all the worlds." (21:107) Part of his excellence is that Allah gave him two of His names,
saying: "merciful, compassionate to the believers." Ibn Shihab said, "The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and
grant him peace, went on a raid [and he mentioned Hunayn]. The Messenger of
Allah gave Safwan ibn Umayya a hundred camels, then a hundred, then a hundred."
Ibn Shihab said, "Sa'id ibn al-Musayyab related that Safwan said, 'By Allah, he
gave me what he gave me. He was the most hated of people to me and he continued
to give to me until he was the most beloved of people to me.' It is related that a bedouin came asking for something from him.
He gave the man something and said, "Have I been good to you?" The bedouin said,
"No, you have not and you have not done well." The Muslims became angry and went
for him. The Prophet indicated that they should hold off. Then the Prophet got
up and went into his house. Then the Prophet sent for him and added something to
his gift and said, "Have I been good to you?" The bedouin replied, "Yes, may
Allah repay you well in family and tribe." The Prophet said, "You said what you
said and that angered my Companions. If you like, say what you said in my
presence in their presence so as to remove what they harbour in their breasts
against you." He said, "Yes." He came back later and the Prophet said, "This
bedouin said what he said and then we gave him more. He claims that he is
content. Isn't that so?" He said, "Yes, may Allah repay you well in your family
and tribe." The Prophet said, "The example of this man and me is like a man who
has a she-camel who bolts from him. People chase it and they only make it shy
away more. The owner calls to them to stay clear of him and his she-camel,
saying, 'I am more compassionate and better to it than you.' He goes in front of
it and takes some clods of dirt and drives it back until it comes and kneels. He
saddles and mounts it. If I had given you your heads when the man said what he
said, you would have killed him and he would have entered the Fire."(Al-Bazzar
from Abu Hurayra) It is related that the Prophet said, "None of you should come to
me with anything about any of my Companions for I do not want to go out to you
except with a clear heart.” (Abu Dawud and at-Tirmidhi from Ibn Mas'ud) Part of his compassion towards his community was that he made
things easy for them. He disliked doing certain things out of the fear that they
would become obligatory for them. He said, "If I had not been compassionate to
my community, I would have commanded them to use the siwak every time they did
wudu'.” (Muslim and al-Bukhari.) There is also the tradition about the night prayer and the one
forbidding them to fast continuously and the one about his dislike of entering
the Ka'ba lest it became incumbent on his community and his desire that his Lord
should make his curse against them a mercy to them. When he heard a child
weeping, he would shorten the prayer. An instance of his compassion was that he called on his Lord and
made a compact with Him saying, "If ever I curse a man or make an invocation
against him, make it zakat for him and mercy, prayer, purification and an act of
drawing-near by which he will draw near to you on the Day of Rising.” (Muslim
and al-Bukhari and Abu Hurayra) When his people rejected him, Jibril came to him and said, "Allah
has heard what your people say to you and how they reject you. He has ordered
the angels of the mountains to obey whatever you tell them to do." The angel of
the mountains called him, greeted him and said, "Send me to do what you wish. If
you wish, I will crush them between the two mountains of Makka." The Prophet
said, "Rather, I hope that Allah will bring forth from their loins those who
will worship Allah alone and not associate anything with Him.” (Muslim and
al-Bukhari and the Six Books) Ibn al-Munkadir related that Jibril told the Prophet, "Allah has
ordered heaven, earth and mountains to obey you." He said, "Reprieve my
community. Perhaps Allah will turn to them." (Mursal hadith) 'A'isha said, "The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and
grant him peace, was never given a choice between two things but that he chose
the easier of the two." Ibn Mas'ud said, "The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and
grant him peace, was careful when he admonished us, fearing he would tire us."
(Muslim and al-Bukhari) 'A'isha was riding an unruly camel which was recalcitrant and
started to hit it repeatedly, The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and
grant him peace, said, "You must have compassion." (Al-Bayhaqi)
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