Difference Between Advising and Shaming
In the Name of Allâh, the Most Beneficent, the Most Merciful
In this notable work, the renowned author provides essential detail in discussing key
points dealing with differences that arise between the People of Sunnah, and the
manners and etiquette one should acquire when differing occurs. He beautifully
illustrates the difference between advising that is encouraged, and shaming that is not
permitted - two topics that often become tangled and misunderstood. The author thus
explains the characteristics of sincere advice and censure with a depth of clarity that will
no doubt bring benefit to all, particularly those involved in active dawah.
This work also lays down some guiding principles when preparing criticisms and
refutations. It makes clear that such ideal precepts apply to People of Sunnah; and as far
as the People of Innovation and desires are concerned, then these principles do not apply
to them. This is because the former group is recognised for following the truth, being
merciful to the creation and desiring for them guidance, reform and all kinds of
goodness. They never intend any harm, but rather make falsehood known by stemming
ignorance through reasoning and dialogue in clarifying the truth - they enjoin the good
and forbid the evil and strive in making the Word of allah uppermost.
Dr. Salih ibn Sa`d al-Suhaymi provides beneficial commentary for the important points
covered in this book, bringing greater relevancy to our modern context
